Saturday, July 25, 2009

Tips for Guys to approach Girls...

Would you like to know how to be able to talk to any girl?(he he , i have tried these steps and my mobile is no longer in rest!!! always chattings only ;) ) Are you awkward/afraid when it comes to initiating a conversation with a girl? Do you want to know how to leave a lasting impression on her? If you're usually good with approaching new people but have trouble when it comes to the opposite sex, read on to learn techniques that will enable you to talk to any girl.

1) Forget that you don't know her

It can be tough to talk to someone that you don't know. So, why not pretend that you do know her? This is not to say that you should approach her and start talking about the imaginary vacation the two of you took last August, but you can approach them with the light conversation that you might use when you approach an old friend.

2) Keep it simple

Pick-up lines typically do not work. The best pick up line in the book is "How are you?" Seriously, it's simple and effective. Another good one is "Hello." Sounds silly, right? Sometimes, the simplest phrases and words that are usually so obvious are the ones that work the best. You can talk to any girl if you keep it simple and real.

3) Give her the home-court advantage

Find out a couple of things that she is interested in and then let her take over the conversation. You want to engage her right off the bat. Ask a few simple questions to figure out her interests and then get the conversation rolling by asking her a couple of questions about them. This will not only get her to talking, but it will also make her feel as though the ball is in her court.

4) Show that you're interested

Instead of worrying about whether or not she is interested in you, show that you are interested in her. Inquire as to how she is doing, ask about her interests, and get her to talking. Take control of the situation as needed. People tend to be impressed by people who are impressed by them, oddly enough.

With these simple techniques, you will find that it's very easy to strike up a conversation. Hopefully, if you put them into action, then you will be able to talk to any girl, too. (like i did to many girls...!!)